The Hard Truth About Relationships and Maturity

I’m writing this at the age of 21, and I’m glad I can. When we’re born, we have two kinds of relationships: first, the blood relations we come into this world with, and second, the relationships we form ourselves later. Every relationship matters. But until we mature, we don’t realize that not every relationship or person feels for us the way we feel for them. People change with time and circumstances—some for the better, some for the worse. That’s the bitter truth about relationships. It’s a reality we all face. Sometimes, even blood can break us badly.

So here’s my advice: meet people, take your time, give them time, observe them, and then decide if they’re right for you. By the end of your life, you might not have many people left. But if those few love you, care for you, and earn your trust—what could be better? I know what you’re thinking: “Who thinks that much? Just go with the flow.” But that attitude can lead to dangerous situations.

Life is not a roller coaster ride. If you want quality, you have to think things through. When you’re clear about what matters, you face fewer problems. So get sorted—you don’t have time to waste. Remember, maturity isn’t about age. When you’re mature, you know what’s right and wrong for you. Relationships are emotional, but sometimes you have to make hard choices.

I hope you never face such challenges and live a happy life. But if you do, make your decisions carefully. Have a good life.

TheSparklingWords // Anushree Vaishnav

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  1. That’s a bitter truth about every relationships. To be honest relationships always hurts.. Aap bus dost hi bane rahiye .. Usme hi zindagi hai, this relationships always sucks . Humne bhi mehsoos kiya h ise. Bus ab sambhal chuke h.. Matlab mature h hum ab. 😊
    And yeah Phir se kahunga, aap such me bahoot hi khoobsurat aur ruhani likhti h. Din-b-din aapki lekhni ke hum kayal hote ja rahe hai.
    Aapka priye pathak -Sameer.

  2. Friendship is also a relationship. Not every relationship hurt you. I mentioned in my post that “people change some for good and some for bad”. Well thank you for your kind words sameer 😊 😃

  3. You’re so right! Change is the only constant thing so even if people change, I think we must work it out together, because the core of a person remains, more or less, the same. So talking to our friend or partner about it, and understanding their reasons is what will make it work. 🙌

  4. Very nice post! you have expressed it in a very rational and right manner!

  5. “Who thinks so much? Just go with the flow.” And later regret. This post is so thoughtful. Wise words from you. You have learnt a lot at the age of just 21. 🙂. Your posts are really good.

  6. I am reading it on 26/12/19 felt really good by reading your sparkling words ..and My age is 22 and I don’t think I am mature enough compared to you…
    Great loved your thoughts….
    Daily thoughts…😁

  7. No relationship either of blood or someone else it just sees how much effort and loyalty it gets. Beautiful description of relations by you.

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