Making Space for New

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Today I’m sad because my mom threw out my favourite old shoes.

They didn’t fit anymore, useless, maybe, but they were still my favourites. Do you have things like that, too old, unfit, but loved anyway?

My mom said, “If I’d tossed them earlier, you wouldn’t feel this bad,” and… she might be right.

If I think a little deeper, some people are like our favourite old, unfit shoes. We love them, but they no longer fit our lives. Over time, people change their priorities and choices, and suddenly they don’t fit the way they used to. It happens to everyone. Don’t worry.

The question is: what do we do then?

Do we leave them not “throw,” that sounds rude and make space for new people?

Or do we keep trying to force the fit?

Ask yourself honestly. Different people have different situations, so think carefully before you choose.

Also worth reading: Almost Loved

17 responses to “Making Space for New”

  1. I had read ur name in one of ur comments 😄

    1. Oh 😁
      Btw what’s your name?

      1. I’m a spy so….when my mission is over i will tell you my name😄

        1. Haha. All the best for you mission 🔥💯😉

        2. “Mossad” 😎
          Wish you all the best….

  2. Wow ,I love the way you have related old shoes with people. ❤❤💯

    I’d say letting go instead of leaving.
    Yes , we should let go people who are unfit to our life.

    Letting go shows how strong & mature you are 😊

    Keep writing

    1. Thank you for your kind words Sumeet ☺

      1. You’re welcome !

        Wait , how do you know my name 🤔

    2. Yeah this hit me so hard 😢

      1. Thank you dear for relate with my words. ☺

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    1. Ohh thank you ☺😇I will post about it very soon!!!!

  4. You said right at all. Our life is like old unfit shoes . Your mom did it absolutely correct throwing them out . Because when we stick to the ones that we have since long and no use of it , we must move on and try something new and let the new people and new things enter in our small world. The more you try to invest your efforts into the new Era with the new ones, the more you becomes positive , experienced and mature and sometimes we get a lot of things to learn from this move . But I want you to recommend to write about everything that you love most , whether you hate your old shoes or love it, your childhood friends and whatever the things you like or dislikes you should just write about them in your diary so you could fresh your old memories and be happier even after throwing them out . You know when we check our diary which we have been writing since long, noting down every stuffs , happier moments , joy sorrow whatever kind of experience that we felt while living the life, it gives us pure happiness while rewinding the old memories by reading!

    1. Thank you for ur kind words. And good opinion i will think about this ! 🙂

  5. Agreed
    Having more sentiments with older than New one.

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