The Hard Truth About Relationships and Maturity

Iโ€™m writing this at the age of 21, and Iโ€™m glad I can. When weโ€™re born, we have two kinds of relationships: first, the blood relations we come into this world with, and second, the relationships we form ourselves later. Every relationship matters. But until we mature, we donโ€™t realize that not every relationship or person feels for us the way we feel for them. People change with time and circumstancesโ€”some for the better, some for the worse. Thatโ€™s the bitter truth about relationships. Itโ€™s a reality we all face. Sometimes, even blood can break us badly.

So hereโ€™s my advice: meet people, take your time, give them time, observe them, and then decide if theyโ€™re right for you. By the end of your life, you might not have many people left. But if those few love you, care for you, and earn your trustโ€”what could be better? I know what youโ€™re thinking: โ€œWho thinks that much? Just go with the flow.โ€ But that attitude can lead to dangerous situations.

Life is not a roller coaster ride. If you want quality, you have to think things through. When youโ€™re clear about what matters, you face fewer problems. So get sortedโ€”you donโ€™t have time to waste. Remember, maturity isnโ€™t about age. When youโ€™re mature, you know whatโ€™s right and wrong for you. Relationships are emotional, but sometimes you have to make hard choices.

I hope you never face such challenges and live a happy life. But if you do, make your decisions carefully. Have a good life.

TheSparklingWords // Anushree Vaishnav

22 responses to “The Hard Truth About Relationships and Maturity”

  1. That’s a bitter truth about every relationships. To be honest relationships always hurts.. Aap bus dost hi bane rahiye .. Usme hi zindagi hai, this relationships always sucks . Humne bhi mehsoos kiya h ise. Bus ab sambhal chuke h.. Matlab mature h hum ab. ๐Ÿ˜Š
    And yeah Phir se kahunga, aap such me bahoot hi khoobsurat aur ruhani likhti h. Din-b-din aapki lekhni ke hum kayal hote ja rahe hai.
    Aapka priye pathak -Sameer.

  2. Friendship is also a relationship. Not every relationship hurt you. I mentioned in my post that โ€œpeople change some for good and some for badโ€. Well thank you for your kind words sameer ๐Ÿ˜Š ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

  3. Yeah that’s true. ๐Ÿ˜Š thanks you too

  4. Thoughtful words….!! ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Family goes beyond blood…

  6. To the sorted out life ๐Ÿฅณ

  7. You’re so right! Change is the only constant thing so even if people change, I think we must work it out together, because the core of a person remains, more or less, the same. So talking to our friend or partner about it, and understanding their reasons is what will make it work. ๐Ÿ™Œ

    1. This true ๐Ÿ˜Š thank you for reading๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜„

      1. You’re most welcome๐Ÿ™Œ

  8. Very nice post! you have expressed it in a very rational and right manner!

  9. “Who thinks so much? Just go with the flow.” And later regret. This post is so thoughtful. Wise words from you. You have learnt a lot at the age of just 21. ๐Ÿ™‚. Your posts are really good.

    1. Oh thank you๐Ÿ˜Š I am glad you like itโ˜บ๏ธ

  10. I am reading it on 26/12/19 felt really good by reading your sparkling words ..and My age is 22 and I don’t think I am mature enough compared to you…
    Great loved your thoughts….
    Daily thoughts…๐Ÿ˜

  11. No relationship either of blood or someone else it just sees how much effort and loyalty it gets. Beautiful description of relations by you.

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