Iโm writing this at the age of 21, and Iโm glad I can. When weโre born, we have two kinds of relationships: first, the blood relations we come into this world with, and second, the relationships we form ourselves later. Every relationship matters. But until we mature, we donโt realize that not every relationship or person feels for us the way we feel for them. People change with time and circumstancesโsome for the better, some for the worse. Thatโs the bitter truth about relationships. Itโs a reality we all face. Sometimes, even blood can break us badly.
So hereโs my advice: meet people, take your time, give them time, observe them, and then decide if theyโre right for you. By the end of your life, you might not have many people left. But if those few love you, care for you, and earn your trustโwhat could be better? I know what youโre thinking: โWho thinks that much? Just go with the flow.โ But that attitude can lead to dangerous situations.
Life is not a roller coaster ride. If you want quality, you have to think things through. When youโre clear about what matters, you face fewer problems. So get sortedโyou donโt have time to waste. Remember, maturity isnโt about age. When youโre mature, you know whatโs right and wrong for you. Relationships are emotional, but sometimes you have to make hard choices.
I hope you never face such challenges and live a happy life. But if you do, make your decisions carefully. Have a good life.
TheSparklingWords // Anushree Vaishnav
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